You are the common denominator in your own life. It’s not him, it’s not her, it’s not them. It’s you!
Universal principle matches you exactly with who you are, having been informed by your experiences and belief systems. The track that plays in your mind, unconscious or conscious is attracting your circumstances and your mates or lack thereof.
You get what you are and think about most, not what you think you want or simply hope for. If those things do not align, what you want, and what you think, you get what you think, over and over…Repeat Performances.
“But my anger is justified, it’s true that every man I’ve been with has mistreated me or taken from me.” You are carrying a program of expecting and accepting this as “normal.” It may have been true that those things happened in the past. Do you want this in your future?
At a certain point, transformation is a yes or no answer. That is all.